A good life makes a man wise according to god and gives him experience in many things.For the more humble he is and the more subject to god. The wiser and the more at peace he will be in all things. If you consider what peace a good life will bring to yourself and what joy it will give to others. I think you will be more concerned about your spiritual progress. The 12 steps is spirituality based. I have tried many products and as many ideas to cope with my issues as a drinker. The only solution was rehab. We all know that drinking and hanging out in bars will not give us the peace of mind that only rehab will do for us. What is the problem with some people? Drinkers know they have a drinking problem so why not go? Do you actually think you do not have a problem? Drinking disrupted my whole life and I would say I do not have a problem? You have drinking problem. Start being the wise man.
Thomas A Kempis