Deciding factors are the most important reasons to stay sober forever and stop creating ruins and find ways to recover. We can always replace most things we lost but the biggest fear is losing what cannot be replaced bad health doesn’t end and then start new. The craving for the need for addictions is important at this moment to take more doses to destroy it along with ourselves and others. We believe it’s a cure for stress, our problems with life, the world, and all the guilt we have not being able to stay sober. Our reasons for deciding is mostly on a personal level wanting to be the sober person we used to be. Jealousy urges us to change feeling left behind the sober crowd sitting drunk believing their much smarter than you. This happened to me and jealousy urged me into a sober life. Believing I didn’t have enough smarts to join them resulted in more anger and more booze followed. Angry and jealous is what pushes us to drink more booze. Others stay sober so why can’t I? Telling ourselves we can’t and never tried to? Everything about us that we are tired of living with are deciding factors reasons to change to a better life all are urging us to move on. Other drinkers stay sober I denied I could do it. They can do it so can I and maybe I’ll be better at it.
The most important deciding factor is yourself
see ya’ next time
