Maybe we thought it was all necessary to discover later the benefits of bars that we hoped to find never came along. Finding good in a social environment is fine be it at a diner having pie and coffee not getting drunk at an overpriced club or a jail cell like all your friends do having a martini or two, cigarettes, vaping and to add many more to mention. This is a way to have fun and relax? We will end up with poor health having a hard time relaxing to that. Restrictions is a stress for couples almost none for the single man so why would he take several relaxing addictions are you desperate for dangerous thrills? Work at your job by day and go out and pursue dangerous encounters by night. Our lives will end this way if we stay with it long enough in an alley by a hidden midnight dweller from the shadows. You don’t have to kill off your brain to fit in with a group of friends. There’s no happiness or victory in addictions use unlimited supply is found in sobriety and a properly adjusted ego that will fit in with the sensible sober man. Why go to any gathering that is unsafe to be there a better place to be than to be living in a stale marriage trying to cope and improve it is not going to happen in most cases and booze and bars makes things worse sobriety is the cure. The life of booze is an hourglass full of sand when it runs out our lives do as well. It’s all a matter of time the life of booze is a short term experience we have too much then we need to stay sober.
Forget the dangerous encounters of drunken bar patrons stay sober.
see ya’ next time
