ON THE FENCE

Doubts will rise to stressful levels then the jitters come can’t decide to stay and face the issues or decide it’s best to leave. Is being there helping or not? We need to use this as a base to decide everything we must do and deciding to stay in the stress and using addictions makes no sense at all. If you are of no help at all you must leave the issue to someone else like in a family setting you did as much as you could so move on. On the fence means we can’t decide which side we want to be on what side of the issue to accept and to want to stay maybe there is some solution that will work. I had to decide like this and I thought it best to leave so I had to I couldn’t do anymore back there someone else can do more than me. If the home life is too stressful it’s time to leave forget the addictions find a road. Find the relaxed life you want it’s there down the road keep going it’s there no looking back. Family issues of any kind can be impossible to solve for some of us but I kept asking can this issue be solve without leaving and for me the issue can only be solve by finding a road and I did and it’s hard at first just accept it as the right thing to do. With this in mind your comfort will come from this not a pill or shots of booze and as long as you stay sober the comfort will always be within your soul as a friend a soul mate that will provide help as needed. You will be glad you found that road It’s time to relax and enjoy your sobriety the freedom you never found at home. You stepped off the fence and onto the right side of it.

The best way to end stress is to turn and walk away

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THE FREEDOM WITHIN

When the life of booze is gone from our lives and the memory of it fades and a fraction of it remains. We have to let ourselves put booze behind us and let our recovery begin. We don’t do this because we believe it’s not possible and I know it is as I have tried to quit the booze on my own several times and failed as many times then I tried rehab and I never drank again. Booze is too big a problem to handle on our own and we can learn to stay sober if we want to and this will give us the confidence to stay with sobriety and the struggle we need to do daily. I have ideas come to me now and then on how to stay sober and this will come to yours in the same way with a clear mind. Booze does nothing but jam up our brain not being able to think at all so move away from it and start thinking of better thoughts again then the freedom will be within us to control our own thinking and deciding what we want to do and no longer tormented by booze. All addictions is a waste of our time and money not having the energy to want to live any part of life or care about anything just sit and drink and complain to no end. Addictions will do this to us not letting us have a good life and sobriety is the only way to have energy and the urge to want to live what life has to offer. All the freedom that we experience in life is stored within ourselves to urge us to pursue what we want in life with the energy to do it and the reason that you stay sober is a value that will provide energy to want to be sober for life.

The freedom within sobriety is the best plan for a successful recovery.

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THE PEACEFUL ENDING

The chances of having what we need in life are turned to ruins when we decide on addictions as a base instead of moral thinking destroying our income with no benefits to ourselves just the carelessness of drunken living as a base as well. We can expect nothing more than our own failures then we need to start living moral values to have a chance to survive. We feel the anger that we bring onto ourselves by our refusing to end the addictions life and the strong belief that we cannot end our addiction just a simple moral value will make us want to start the recovery process and the strong dislike of ourselves will urge us to want changes and stop at nothing to see them happen. We never know what booze will turn us into and we can end it and become better people but it doesn’t sound possible when we are living the worst case scenario at the time and I do know it is possible because I lived booze the rehab helped me recover from it. A plan for escape and never returning is the only peaceful ending for recovery people and adding moral support daily will make sobriety stronger each day. All a moralist is allowed to do is good as some complain about restricted living as I never see it this way it is to keep the evils out of your life as a safe haven for us all. When it is working for us where does a complaint fit in?

The peaceful ending is what we choose to live

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WHAT IS YOUR MISSION?

I got tired of being a failure so I decided to prove I had some smarts after all by choosing to be a blogger. My mission is to create a sober world where booze will no longer be a major source of ruin. My first mission was to stay sober and find ways to avoid relapse which does not exist in a strong sobriety and staying away from other drinkers. Hanging out with drunken failures is the start of our ruins no want for the comfort of being sober but the choice of a hardship lifestyle. I know that sober living is the best way to live and many boozers think this way so why is there so many boozers out there? If you know what is best for you why are you delaying the start of your sobriety? Admit booze was your mistake and move on to recovery and the devotion to being sober. You have seen your own ruins why doesn’t it make you run to sobriety? I did and stayed sober thinking what lifestyle could be better? Living sober and being a blogger is my mission. What is your mission? Why is booze more important than sobriety? The issues that boozers live with can’t be enjoying themselves so why not live sober? As a boozer we all go through this for awhile then we are serious about being sober but why put up with it for years at a time and did nothing to help yourself and others never do so get sober before it’s too late. Do you truly believe that booze is your mission? Sounds like it is not wanting to quit getting more benefits from it than from sobriety? Maybe it’s more simple than this being only a frolic at the bar or a romp in the park at midnight being only half drunk as we all do when all of us drink a few we never know what we will think of doing in the wee hours of the night. We can do all this while staying sober so all you need to give up is the booze not the crazy ideas at the park. What is your mission to drink booze or to improve your life and stay sober? There is no loyalty in booze and not in being drunk either so why refuse to end it? we don’t need to know why we just have to live a better life being sober?

Make your mission statement living a life of sobriety

EMPTY PROMISES

A drinking binge is largely inflated ego and rising more so with each drink we have seeing how many people will notice the empty bottles in front of them. Booze is the maker of promises but will never deliver making our minds an empty shell full of darkness and stale air. What we put into our brain babbles out of our mouths only the words booze has chosen for us to speak and stutter. Booze will not provide a content life just high and addicted unable to stop when we want to and unable to think sensible thoughts when we want to. Promises to give us energy by having a drink what boozer stops at just one drink I didn’t. To make us feel tall after being insulted is also a craving for booze this is our need and to want to end the events of our miserable lives as booze will kill the pain but never our problems. Drinking is not what it’s bragged up to be but we refuse to believe so we have to prove it to ourselves and it never stops includes drug use too. Simple promises and a hidden disguise revealed after we agree to and accept any deal with an intoxicated person. Wanting to keep drinking and to want to stop both means “needing to” Think about this before your next binge. The life of booze is a fantasy world and the only reality that is in it is the ruins you will live with while you are still in it. This bothers us and we care but there is something strangely important that makes us keep going back for more. Ill for so long and needing to be sober there is nothing strange about this scenario and booze will never provide as much comfort as sobriety will provide to us all.

Booze is nothing more than hyped-up fake news

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SIMPLE WAYS OF LIFE

The simple ways of life are the easiest to do leaving out the confusions of booze. We choose to live a confused life and we ask ourselves why and we will never know the answer. The easiest way of life to live is sobriety where it never will have any confusion. We were confused enough when booze forced us to live a confused life and the decisions we made were the same. The life of booze is too big for anyone to handle struggling with hardships and a guilty conscience to name just a few but why refuse to leave it getting drunk is the only simple thing about it carrying your problems to the bar giving you a reason to get drunk all over again. The simplest way to solve this is to not create the problems at all to live sober is the easiest way to live and it won’t create the problems booze will. It is human nature to do things the easiest way possible and not try to mess up your life, your body, and your soul and when we know this we keep on doing it for every drink we have. The life of a drinker is too big to understand and also the reason we want to do it and break it down into it’s simplest form and then we will learn what it’s all about wanting to live the simple life called sobriety. The long list of hardships will disappear when you start living in sobriety. I left the life of booze behind me decades ago and not one problem ever came to me.

Tired of your drunken miserable life sobriety will cure that

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PREDICTIONS

Booze will predict it’s own destiny and ours as well when we follow and obey the outcome. Foretelling our future the message was never told to us as it never would have been a warning of danger ahead just good times and ruins of booze. Every binge is the risk of being our last and cannot predict if life or death awaits in the morning after. We could have if only we followed the urging to live sober and the outcome will have accurate predictions entering a life that will save us and booze will destroy us. We can predict our own future if it starts with being sober based on promises not entering a life in a dangerous land and building castles on shifting sand. When we enter into the unknown world of addictions use no one can predict what will be there waiting for us but only how it will end in two ways our death and an epitaph. Where was this message when we were told how great the life of booze was going to be? Why was it left out? No need to be a teller of fortunes to predict what will happen when you take your first dose and you will not stop at just one. How many will it be? Predict your own future by saying no and stop for a latte on your way home and be sober in the morning sun. What better plan can anyone make for us? In all predictions there is a risk of it happening or not but in sobriety it offers the promise of safe living. I have been sober for decades and I can predict what my future years will be like being sober. What promises will your addictions use provide to you? In the graveyard.

For every dose we take our predictions of ruins comes closer to reality

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SOUNDS OF SILENCE

Still complaining about the hardships you received in the life of booze? Silence the nagging voice inside your mind and toss it out and be sober and happy once again or drive yourself crazy and never be happy again. Is it your mission in life to become insane? Starting now the booze is gone and all the problems that go with it doesn’t exist but only the sober life remains. We all had hardships in the life of booze and I say no big deal who cares all that matters is that it’s over and done with and now enters into the mind the sounds of silence. I was told this in rehab forget the guilt and remorse and whatever else that causes your grief. I understand that we all have issues like this and it is a daily struggle as I do too but I find a solution to the issue then end it no more thinking about it. Done. I have spoken to a person who carried around with him guilt from what he said to his friend when he was drunk years before this is nonsense to live this way so move on from this. We all say things when we are drinking and it’s no big deal to hang onto it so if this is what is making your sobriety miserable end it now and live sober and peaceful in the sounds of silence the program that sobriety is based on. The hardships are gone so let it fade away and walk away with a happy life and keep it simple is what sobriety is all about don’t think about this just do it. I make jokes about my hardship and laugh it off relieves the stresses of life. If I didn’t have bad luck I’d have no luck at all. Better than nothing at all? It’s not whether we win or lose it’s how we play the game and accept both with a smile. We lost at booze and won at sobriety and laugh and make jokes about it. Do it.

In the morning drink your coffee in the sounds of silence

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I WALK ALONE

I walk alone in freedom without the crowds of boozers down a narrow path to a new and better life called being sober planning to improve our lives and relapse is a lousy plan that destroys our society. This is happening in the midst of their ruin as well as our own lives. Chatting a billion words of recovery and a billion methods tried, failed, and rejected offers with another binge as our own choice. It all can end by our choice to stay sober and struggle daily to stay that way. We took the time to plan a sober life to stay away from the temptation of the bad annoying thoughts of it then we walked away from the comforts of a sober life to step into the misery of addictions use but only one cure exists and that is for users to live sober. We will never improve by refusing to live a sober life and no one said it will be easy but not difficult either. We have spent close to half of our work day focusing on our job and the other half making plans for the weekend and trying to decide if we can afford to spend enough money at a club for a few hours holding off paying a bill to have more money to spend on booze and pot. Millions of down and out boozers regret choosing this life and no turning back for many of them but not all. Do you want to be one of the millions of followers? Millions of lives are ruined by booze but one person can save millions of lives by inviting them to live in their sober world. Many issues come in large amounts but few people can solve their problems if they could there would be no more boozers and their misery is gone and no more need for the booze and the best life is next called being sober. I got tired of the beaten path following a long line of boozers so I walked away and started my own path to freedom and happiness.

Don’t follow boozers walk alone and stay sober

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WHIRLWINDS

With ignorance and curiosity and trusting friend we agreed to learn the proper way to use addictions then we believed that just tripping was just a one-time thing. The high was so good it won’t allow you to refuse the next one. Watching the cyclone of the drug supply and eager to be a player got too close to the wild whirlwind that spiraled your drug use out of control and too late to step out of the spiral. You may have decided tripping was safe when you saw a room full of users doing it. If you would have gone down to an alley where users are living in drug use this may have changed your mind not to try the first dose at all. A life may seem sweeter when we get high and relaxed like a selection of sweets and rows of chocolates to try each one like a drug party then the morning after. Will you go back for more? How much of your brain will be with you? A little maybe but no common sense will exist. Most users say they are just tripping and then nothing will happen to them. People living in cardboard boxes said the same thing and look what happened to them. Step up to the best drugs in town so get in line early to get your share don’t want to miss out. The high begins and then several more after then you decide you had enough but your dealer says no he owns you. The nightmare has begun the reality is the same. The sun will rise tomorrow then the poking of needles and the fix to kill the pain and follow all the other down and out users for more of the same. It takes a little addiction to understand the good life we never knew we had and the good life sobriety has waiting for us. Refuse the first dose and fix yourself up for sober living.

The best thing for all of us is to refuse the first dose.

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